Carl Thomas Dean, the reclusive husband of Dolly Parton, has passed away at 82. Dean, who married the country music icon in 1966, consistently avoided the public eye, rarely appearing at events with Parton. Over the years, only a few photos of the couple were shared.
Parton announced Dean’s passing on Instagram, noting that he died in Nashville on March 3. The cause of death was not disclosed. He will be laid to rest in a private ceremony with immediate family attending. He is survived by his siblings Sandra and Donnie,” the statement read.
Reflecting on their long relationship, Parton wrote, “Carl and I spent many wonderful years together. Words can’t do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.” She requested privacy for her family during this difficult time.
Born in Nashville in 1942, Dean was one of three children of Virginia “Ginny” Bates Dean and Edgar “Ed” Henry Dean. In her book “Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business,” Parton mentioned Dean’s close relationship with his grandmother Minnie Bates.
Dean and Parton met in 1964 outside a laundromat when she was 18 and had recently moved to Nashville. Parton recounted their first encounter in a 1976 interview, recalling how Dean approached her while she was out exploring the city. Initially hesitant to date him due to safety concerns, she invited him to visit her at her uncle’s house. He visited daily, and they soon began dating.
Dean recalled his first impression of Parton in a rare public comment in 2016, saying, “My first thought was ‘I’m gonna marry that girl.’ My second thought was, ‘Lord she’s good lookin.’ And that was the day my life began. I wouldn’t trade the last 50 years for anything on this earth.”
The couple wed in Ringgold, Georgia, in 1966, with only her mother, the pastor, and his wife present. Parton described it as the first and last marriage for both of them.
While Parton’s career flourished, Dean remained in the background, focusing on his asphalt business. Despite his low profile, he inspired Parton’s famous song “Jolene,” based on a flirtatious bank teller. Parton often remarked on their complementary personalities, noting they were opposites, which added excitement to their relationship.
Dean preferred staying out of the limelight, even choosing not to be featured at Dollywood, Parton’s theme park. The couple enjoyed a simple life, taking road trips in their RV and having picnics near their home.
Over the years, Parton often spoke of Dean’s humor and support, emphasizing the strength of their bond. They renewed their vows in 2016 and cherished their time together, despite frequent separations due to her career.
Dean is survived by Parton and his siblings, leaving behind a legacy of a deeply private yet enduring partnership.
Connie Abbs
March 4, 2025 at 10:50 pmDolly, I feel your pain, on zjune 30, 2023, I lost my husband of 54 years. My y Jim was a wonderful father, grandfather and great- grandfather to our two sons families. I met him when he was stationed at Camo zpenekton in Southetn California. He had just returned from the Vietnam war and he truly was my hero, always was, always will be even though he passed from Pnemonia and Acute Leukemia. I after having him in my life for 54 years, I can’t imagine how hard it is after 60 years. But I can’t imagine how it’s any worse than 54 years. We agreed at the ages of 19 and he was 29 that we both were only going to get married once – we both were from broken homes and neither of us wanted to put children through that. But the beauty of marrying young is that you grow up together and weather the storms together. I’m sure that’s exactly what you two did too. God Bless you Dolly – my heart hurts for you, I truly hope you process the loss better than I am. Our Lord’s Bkessings to you and yours!
Connie Abbs
Pearl
March 5, 2025 at 10:51 amMy heart knows exactly what uou went thru taking care of your beloved. CARL.My husband also had which I think is one of the most awful diseases to a person’s mind. Alzheimers. God Bless you as you continue on throughout this time with so many memories that time itself will not take away from you. Prayers ❤️ 🙏